A Series of All Too Real Events

There was a recent article I found on the web that really caught my eye. The title of the article was “In Praise of the Ordinary Child” The title alone intrigued me to a high degree, especially since I couldn’t remember the last time I had really seen an “ordinary child” in my school career. The majority of the people currently in my school either have high ambitions and aspirations to accomplish things that would be considered extraordinary to the “ordinary” child. The article then capitalized on my forgetfulness immediately by talking about how you always see students as overworked, stressed, and sometimes generally distraught human beings, with hardly anyone being 100% positive walking through the front door. The article then explains why this phenomenon happens: it’s because parents are continuously criticizing what their kids are doing in school based on their grades and extracurricular activities they participate in. Almost every parent, according to the article, strives for their kids to do their very best or better and it makes students into constantly anxious, depressed and/or all-around angry beings in school. After I finished the article I had to resonate for a minute, because everything the article said was true. Hardly anyone walks into school happy anymore like they did in middle or high school, and those that do are either on a sugar high or are dead on the inside but trying to lighten everyone else’s mood. Everyone constantly complains about their parents being too strict on them and not listening when they tell them so. Everyone’s constantly drained by the end of the day and expected to do a mountain of homework in order to keep their grades. Everyone looks ok at school but could have a mental break any second of the day. Lastly, most students usually end up being in an extracurricular activity they don’t want to be in but are pressured to stay. These points are all too true throughout America, with relatively few exceptions. It’s a vicious cycle that would end but only if parents would just let their children be ordinary and themselves instead of what they want them to be. Unfortunately for most it almost never will.